The arrival of a new year often brings a specific kind of pressure to reinvent every aspect of our lives overnight. We tend to latch on to the idea that we can only improve through massive action and radical shifts in our daily routines. While the ambition is admirable, this approach is frequently a recipe for overwhelm and a quick return to old habits by mid-February.

True, lasting change rarely takes root in high stress environments. For the rest of us, the path to health lies in a more grounded and thoughtful approach that respects our unique context. By discovering a deeper motivation, committing to the bare minimum, and leading with self-compassion, we can move away from the cycle of burnout. It is about shifting our perspective from reaching a finish line to enjoying the daily journey, allowing wellness to become a part of who we are rather than just something we are trying to achieve.

Forget the pressure to "end the year strong." This December, I am exploring a different approach: ending the year soft. Learn how compassion, rest, and grace can set you up for a healthier New Year than pushing ever could.