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Strength Training for Real Results: Why and How to Build Muscle

What is strength training? It might seem like a silly question—it's training for strength, right? Yes, but there's often confusion about what that means.

I talk a lot on social media about the importance of strength training and its benefits beyond just building bigger muscles. Some people—primarily women—think they don't need strength training because they're not interested in getting "big." But strength training offers so much more than big muscles (although, for the record, my personal goal is to build big muscles, and that's okay, too!).

Strength training builds stronger bones by increasing bone density, which reduces the risk of falls and fractures now and as you age. It also helps protect and stabilize your joints by strengthening the muscles around them, reducing the likelihood of injury. Another major benefit? Strength training improves your metabolism. Muscles are metabolically expensive, meaning your body burns more energy to maintain muscle. Simply put, the more muscle you have, the more calories your body burns just by existing—no extra cardio is required! A higher metabolism means you can eat more calories without storing them as fat because they are needed to maintain and grow muscle tissue.

Maintaining and building muscle as you lose fat reduces your risk of regaining weight because your metabolism stays elevated. Plus, muscles build confidence and give you that "toned" look many women desire.

Benefits of Strength Training

Strength training is more than building big muscles. While muscle growth is one benefit, the impact of strength training goes far beyond aesthetics:

  • Bone Health: Strength training increases bone density, reducing the risk of fractures and falls, especially as you age.

  • Joint Protection: Strong muscles stabilize and protect joints, reducing the likelihood of injuries.

  • Metabolic Boost: Muscle tissue burns more calories at rest, helping you maintain a healthy metabolism. This means you can enjoy more food without storing it as fat.

  • Confidence and Tone: Building muscle boosts your confidence and gives you the "toned" look many women desire.

Here's the truth: to look toned, you must build muscle. Toned equals muscle. As a personal trainer and health coach, I've met countless women whose goal is to get toned but then avoid the specific actions required to build muscle.

I get it—the fitness industry doesn't make it easy. The internet, social media, and fitness advertisements promise the same outcome (losing fat and gaining muscle) while selling 100 different (mostly ineffective)ways to get there. Strength training is one of the most effective and direct ways to build muscle and achieve that "toned" look.

Is This Strength Training? Let's Break It Down

When I talk to people about strength training, they often ask:

  • Is Pilates strength training?

  • Is Yoga strength training?

  • Does running hills count as strength training?

  • What about wearing a weighted vest while walking or jogging?

The answer is yes…and then no. Let me explain.

If you've never done hill running (or haven't in a while), starting to do it consistently can provide resistance for your hamstrings, glutes, and calves, helping to build strength and muscle. Hill training has many other benefits, including improving cardiovascular health and running performance.

However, the human body is an adaptation machine. When you stress your body with strength-building activities, it adapts, and you get stronger—hooray!

But here's the catch: to continue building strength, you must keep challenging your muscles by adding more resistance over time. That's why hill running is great for initial strength building, but it will only qualify as progressive strength training if you keep finding steeper hills (and even then, you'll eventually hit your limit). Not to mention, hill running is not full body strength training; balancing upper and lower body strength is key.

The same logic applies to Yoga and mat Pilates. These activities build strength initially because they require resistance (usually your body weight). However, unless you're increasing the resistance or difficulty over time, they stop being effective for building strength. Yoga and Pilates are fantastic for flexibility, balance, and overall health but don't provide the progressive overload needed for sustained strength gains.

The Key to Strength Training: Progressive Overload

The secret to strength training is progressive overload. It means continually challenging your muscles by increasing the resistance, volume, or intensity. Without this incremental increase, your body adapts, and you stop progressing, and it ceases to remain effective strength training.

Even if you're holding weights or your workout feels hard, it doesn't necessarily mean you're strength training. To build strength, you need to lift heavy weights with proper progression. Sweating, being out of breath, or feeling tired and sore doesn't automatically equal strength training.

While excellent for overall fitness and fun, many group fitness classes don't provide the structure for true strength training. Are you lifting progressively heavier weights? Are you increasing the difficulty of your exercises over time? Are you taking adequate rest breaks between sets? If the answer is no, it's likely not effective strength training.

Why Most Classes and Modalities Don't Count as Strength Training

Group fitness classes, Yoga, boot camps, and similar activities offer numerous benefits for fitness and health, but they typically fall short of progressive strength training. Here's why:

  • Lack of Progression: Are you lifting heavier weights or doing more advanced exercises over time? If not, the stimulus remains the same, and your muscles stop adapting.

  • Insufficient Rest: Many classes emphasize continuous movement, which prevents your muscles from fully recovering between sets. Recovery is key for strength development.

  • Focus on Cardio or Endurance: Just because something feels hard or makes you sweat doesn't mean it's building muscle.

This doesn't mean you should avoid these activities—they're excellent for cardiovascular health, flexibility, and overall fitness (and fun). But they're not a direct path to building strength and muscle.

How to Get Started WITH STRENGTH TRAINING

I'm not saying you should ditch your favorite class, Pilates, Yoga, or hill running—these activities have many benefits and can be part of a balanced exercise routine. But if your goal is to build muscle, get stronger, or achieve that toned look, you must prioritize progressive strength training.

It doesn’t take much. Hit all major muscle groups two times per week to start seeing results—plenty of time to get in your flexibility or cardio classes for their specific benefits.

So, how do you do it?

Focus on resistance exercises that challenge your muscles. Lift heavy enough weights that the last two reps of your set feel difficult but doable. If you finish a set and feel like you could do five more reps, it's a sign you could go heavier.

Implement progressive overload by gradually increasing your weight, reps, sets, or intensity. It might mean adding a few pounds to your lifts, slowing your tempo, or progressing to more advanced exercises.

Give yourself adequate rest between sets. You might not be lifting heavy enough if you can jump right into the next set without resting.

Stick to the basics and repeat the same exercises consistently. "Muscle confusion" is a myth. The best way to build strength is to repeat foundational exercises and progressively add resistance over time.

Three Questions to Determine If You're Strength Training

To assess whether your activity qualifies as strength training, ask yourself:

  1. Is it providing resistance?

  2. Can I continually increase the resistance over time?

  3. Am I allowing for adequate rest between sets?

If you answered yes to all three, congratulations—you're strength training!

The Lifetime Benefits of Strength Training

Strength training may help you look great now, but its real power lies in how it sets you up for a long, healthy, independent life. Building muscle improves your strength, stability, and confidence at every stage of life. As you age, it becomes even more critical for maintaining mobility, reducing injury risk, and staying active.

Need Help? Let's Get Strong Together

If you’re ready to take your fitness to the next level and start 2025 strong, join my 6-week Kick-Start Challenge in January! This program includes one-on-one Zoom coaching for habits and accountability, workouts, nutrition guidance, a body composition scale, and a heart rate monitor—all designed to help you build strength and confidence.

Not sure if it’s right for you? Let’s talk! I’m offering a free consultation call—no strings attached. This isn’t a sales call, and I won’t try to convince you of anything. My only goal is to hear your story, understand your goals, and genuinely help you decide if this program aligns with what you’re looking for. It’s not for everyone, and that’s okay. I’ll only invite the people I believe I can help make a real difference. Are you in? Click here to schedule your free call on my calendar. I’d love to chat with you!


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Improve Your Potential with the Push Pull Legs Strength Programming for Runners

A Simple, Effective Approach to Building Strength for Runners

Strength training for runners doesn't have to be complicated. It shouldn't be!

Many runners don't do strength training because they overcomplicate it, looking at bodybuilder workouts on Pinterest or niche workouts from influencers on Instagram.

If you stick to the basics and work to increase your weight to get stronger over time, you will get the best results—there is no need for muscle confusion or complicated programming. The basics are the best way to get results.

As a runner, your goal is to complement your running, not replace it. That's where the Push/Pull/Legs (PPL) programming comes in—a balanced, straightforward strength-training approach that targets all major muscle groups, improves running economy, and reduces injury risk.

Whether you're new to strength training or looking for a system that fits seamlessly into your running routine, push/pull/legs programming is incredibly effective and simple to implement.

What Is the Push/Pull/Legs Programming

The PPL method divides strength training into three types of repeatable workouts:

  1. Push Workouts: Focus on muscles used for pushing movements—chest, shoulders, and triceps.

  2. Pull Workouts: Target muscles for pulling—back and biceps

  3. Leg Workouts: Strengthen the lower body—quads, hamstrings, and glutes.

By alternating these workouts, you ensure balanced muscle development, allow adequate rest between muscle groups, and reduce imbalances that often lead to injuries.

Why Push/Pull/Legs Works Well For Runners

Improves Running Economy:

Strength training enhances your efficiency by building stronger, more resilient muscles, allowing you to run faster and longer with less effort.

Reduces Injury Risk:

Strengthening muscles, tendons, and ligaments protects joints from the repetitive impact of running. Muscles stabilize joints, and strong muscles reduce injury risk.

Targets Key Muscle Groups:

The PPL programming ensures that you don't neglect any muscle groups, addressing common weaknesses like glutes, shoulders, and back strength that are vital for runners.

Fits Into a Runner's Schedule:

With five 30 sessions per week, PPL is easy to integrate into a busy training plan.

How to Structure a PPL Week FOR RUNNERS

A typical PPL week for runners might look like this:

DayWorkoutDetails

Monday: Push + core

Tuesday: Pull + core

Wednesday: Legs

Thursday: Push + core

Friday: Pull + core

Saturday: Long Run or Rest. Depending on your run training schedule

Sunday: Rest

Then, you would alternate the workouts, starting with Legs the following Monday. This schedule is for phase one. I recommend doing the same exercises for three weeks during phase I. Then, as you move into phase II, alternate the exercise to a more advanced version that works the same muscles or adjust the rep range.

Exercises for Each Category

Push + Core Workouts:

  • Overhead press

  • Floor or Bench Press

  • Incline Push up

  • Plank variation

Pull + Core Workouts:

  • Deadlift

  • Bent Over Row

  • Inverted row or pull-up

  • Around the world (core)

Leg Workouts:

  • Single-leg glute bridge

  • Goblet squat

  • Side lunge

  • Single leg deadlift

How to Progress

  • Choose the Right Weight: Pick a weight that feels challenging by the last 2–3 reps. If you can easily do 4–5 more reps than the target, it's time to increase the weight.

  • Track Your Progress: Keep a log of your workouts, noting the weights, sets, and reps. Aim to gradually increase the weights, sets, or number of reps over time.

Tips for Success

  1. Focus on Form: Quality matters more than quantity. Proper form prevents injuries and ensures you're targeting the right muscles.

  2. Rest and Recover: Allow your muscles time to repair and grow stronger. Follow your PPL workouts with proper nutrition and rest.

  3. Keep It Simple: Don't overcomplicate your routine. Stick to the basics and stay consistent. If you miss workouts often, this may not be your best program.

ADAPT TO YOUR FITNESS LEVEL

The push/pull/legs program is versatile and can be adapted to suit both your schedule and fitness level while working together with a running plan.

Beginners can adapt the program to their fitness level by completing the strength workouts three days a week, alternating with running days. A three-day option is perfect for runners less experienced in the gym or those with tight schedules, as it allows you to hit each major muscle group once per week while leaving ample time for running and recovery. The three-day plan reduces the risk of overtraining and ensures that strength sessions complement rather than compete with running performance.

More advanced runners or those with more strength-training experience might choose a six-day option, performing Push-pull and leg workouts twice weekly for increased volume and progression. Ensure you allow at least one full weekly rest day.

The Push/Pull/Legs programming can be a game-changer for runners who want to build strength without overhauling their training routine. Dedicating three to six days a week for targeted strength workouts can enhance your running performance, reduce injuries, and feel stronger overall.

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Start with light weights, master the movements, and build from there. Your stronger, faster, injury-resistant self will thank you!

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Black Friday Deals (You Actually Want) For a Fit & Healthy Life

Black Friday Deals for a Fit and Healthy Life

Black Friday is here, and you know what that means: it's the perfect time to stock up on everything you need to crush your fitness goals while saving big. As someone who believes in living a fit life year-round, I’ve rounded up some incredible Black Friday deals to help you stay strong, healthy, and thriving.

Whether you’re restocking your favorite supplements, upgrading your fitness gear, or investing in your health, there’s something here for everyone. Plus, I’ve included affiliate links, so if you click and purchase, I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you!

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If you’re like me, you’re picky about what you put in your body. That’s why I love Thorne supplements—they’re trusted, third-party tested, and packed with exactly what you need to support your workouts, recovery, and overall health. Thorne's got you covered whether you’re after a high-quality multivitamin, protein powder, or specialized support for energy and immune health. Take advantage of 35% OFF this Black Friday to stock up on your go-to supplements or try something new to elevate your fitness game.

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Grateful for You This Thanksgiving

As we dive into the holiday season, I want to say thank you for being part of my community. I’m so grateful for your trust, support, and the chance to share this fitness journey with you. I hope these deals help you focus on your health while snagging some great savings. Wishing you a warm, joyful, and active Thanksgiving filled with gratitude—and maybe a little pie, too.

Happy Thanksgiving and happy shopping! Let me know if you snag any of these deals—or better yet, join me for the 6-week challenge. I’d love to help you reach your goals!

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Coach Lea

I am a master health coach, personal trainer, and running coach, dedicated to helping YOU get strong, body and mind!

Beating the Winter Blues: Tips for a Brighter Season

I know, I know. It’s the most wonderful time of the year—but for this sun-loving girl, fall and winter can feel… well, blue.

I talk a lot about mindset, the importance of positive self-talk, and controlling the narrative in your mind. But when it comes to my own seasonal struggles, I realized I wasn’t taking my own advice.

Let’s call it the winter blues. While I definitely feel a shift in my well-being when the sun sets early, and the weather turns cold, it doesn’t feel severe enough to call it depression. Still, I notice how it affects my mood, energy, and motivation.

So, this year, I’ve decided to approach it differently. I’m treating it as an experiment: Can shifting my mindset and focusing on intentional habits make a difference in my winter well-being?

If you’re reading this, I’m glad you’re here. Let’s explore this journey together—I hope it helps you, too!

Beating the Winter Blues

1. Stay Present and Stop Predicting the Worst

For me, the winter blues don’t even wait for winter. As early as my late September birthday, I start dreading the cold, dark days ahead—even when it’s still 90 degrees in Texas!

The silly part? I’m worrying about something that hasn’t even happened yet. So this year, I’m focusing on staying present. If I catch myself thinking about how miserable I might feel in the future, I immediately dismiss it. Why borrow trouble?

By focusing on how I feel right now, I’ve noticed a big difference. Let’s not worry about winter before it arrives—and when it does, let’s take it one day at a time.

2. Stop Assigning Feelings to the Weather

This morning, I bundled up, leashed my dog Dale (yes, my dog is named Dale), and headed out for my daily walk. The newscaster had declared it the coldest morning of the season.

It was cold. That’s a fact. But here’s the key: I didn’t assign feelings to it.

I didn’t say, “It’s cold, and I hate it.” I didn’t sigh, “Ugh, it’s so cold.” I just acknowledged it: “It’s cold.”

Since I can’t control the weather—if I could, it’d be 80 and sunny every day—why waste energy feeling bad about it? Shifting my mindset has helped me see the cold as neutral, not negative.

3. Be Mindful of Negative Self-Talk (Even the Funny Kind)

Negative self-talk, even when it’s masked as jokes, can hold us back. I’ve caught myself making self-deprecating comments about the cold and dark—sometimes just for laughs.

But here’s the thing: Every joke I make about the end of daylight savings ruining my life reinforces the narrative that I hate winter. Instead of making jokes that keep me stuck, I’m reshaping my thoughts into something more productive.

I was so tempted to share this when I saw it on social media, but these kinds of “jokes” only reinforce a negative mindset.

4. Stick to a Healthy Routine

When I stick to a routine that includes exercise, quality sleep, and nourishing food, I feel better—no matter the season. The more I keep up with healthy habits, the easier it is to avoid a spiral of negative emotions.

If I let my bad feelings about the weather lead to skipping workouts or eating junk food, I know I’ll only feel worse. Controlling the controllables, like my routine, is one of the most effective tools I have.

5. Practice Seasonal Gratitude

Gratitude is a game-changer. Every morning, I write down three things I’m grateful for, and I try to include something seasonal.

Here’s what I’ve come up with:

  • Running feels amazing in cool weather. After sweating through a triple-digit Texas summer, the crisp air is a gift for my lungs and legs.

  • I love my sauna, and the cold weather gives me more excuses to enjoy it.

  • Cozy clothes, warm drinks, and earlier bedtimes make winter feel comforting in its own way.

Even if the cold and dark aren’t your favorite, there’s always something to appreciate.

6. Question Your Winter Story

Here’s a thought: Do I dislike winter because that’s the story I’ve been telling myself?

I used to believe I wasn’t athletic, that I didn’t like strength training—and now those beliefs feel laughable. I’ve proven myself wrong before, so why not now?

By shifting my focus to the positives and challenging my “I’m not a winter person” narrative, can I learn to embrace the colder months? Maybe I can become a cold-weather-loving gal after all. I have to hold space that this could be true for me.

Take Action: Try a Mindset Reset

If you’re struggling with the winter blues, try this:

  1. Write It Down. Jot down one thing you enjoy about the season—something small but meaningful, like warm drinks or cozy clothes.

  2. Reframe Your Thoughts. The next time you notice yourself complaining about the cold, pause and reframe it. Instead of saying, “I hate this,” try thinking, “It’s cold, but I can handle it.”

  3. Control the Controllable. Focus on actions you can take—whether it’s sticking to a routine, getting better sleep, or bundling up for a walk.

Experiment with these shifts and see how they work for you. Let’s navigate this season together, and who knows—maybe we’ll both come out loving winter a little more.

Hang around and find out!

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Two quick announcements

Never start Over Again 6-Week Kick-Off

My next six-week kick-off program begins in January. It’s called “Never start over again” because we’ll develop the mindset and routines that allow for different seasons of life, so you never feel like you are starting over, always just moving forward, even if in small ways.

The kick-off includes personal one-on-one coaching, access to the app, a heart-rate monitor, and a body composition scale. I have a one-day Black Friday sale on November 29th, for which you will pay for the hardware at only $199. Email me to request the coupon code— lea(at)leagendersfitness(dot)com— to secure your spot now, or I will share the discount code on Instagram and Facebook on Black Friday for one day only.

After that, it will be $349 (which is still a great deal for 6 weeks of personalized plans and coaching). If you want to wait to commit until after the holidays, you can add your name to the waitlist for $1, and I’ll email you after Christmas to get started.

Spots are extremely limited because they include one-on-one coaching. I can only accept a few, so I have time to coach all the members. This is not a cookie-cutter, everyone-gets-the-same-plan type of challenge.

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If you want to help me share the 6-week kick-off program, I am offering an affiliate program, so you get paid 20% of the sale when someone signs up using your link! This is whether you sign up or not, so please help me share and get paid!

Hope to see you there! I’ll take down the link once the program is full.

Here’s a healthy, happy holiday season!

Questions? I’d love to help.

Coach Lea

I am a master health coach, personal trainer, and running coach, dedicated to helping YOU get strong, body and mind!

We Can Do Hard Things: Breaking Free From Limiting Beliefs

The past year has been a whirlwind of challenges, growth, and realizations. Recently, I hosted a webinar focused on navigating the holiday season while progressing toward health goals. Many people worry about gaining weight or losing progress over the holidays, so we discussed balanced ways to stay on track.

One topic that resonated with many was the idea that our identities are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves. It made me reflect deeply on the labels we assign ourselves and how they can either empower or limit us.

Breaking Down Limiting Identity Statements

In the webinar, I encouraged attendees to examine the labels they use:

  • "I’m not a morning person."

  • "I can’t stick to a diet."

  • "I’m not good at sports."

These statements can hold us back, often without us realizing it. I noticed that I also had identity statements of my own, ones that I never questioned. For years, I labeled myself an introvert who was “better at writing than talking” and “not good on video.” But recently, I asked myself if these labels were really true—or if they only had to be true if I chose to believe them.

Stepping Outside My Comfort Zone

To challenge these ideas, I decided to push beyond my comfort zone. Over the past month, I posted short videos on YouTube daily, hosted a live webinar, appeared on a podcast, and went live on LinkedIn. It’s safe to say this was all new and daunting territory for me. Who even am I?

Surprisingly, it wasn’t as terrifying as I’d expected. No, I’m not a polished public speaker (yet), and I still have room to improve, but the positive feedback I received helped me realize that I’m not as “bad on video” as I once thought. Each experience nudged me to grow, showing me that the stories I had been telling myself were outdated and limiting.

Why Doing Hard Things Matters

Reflecting on the past year, I’ve continually stepped outside my comfort zone in small but impactful ways. Every time I’ve taken on something challenging, big or small, I’ve become a better coach and a stronger person.

When you push yourself to do hard things, even small ones, you gain confidence and open up new growth opportunities. The key is to stretch yourself just beyond where you’re comfortable, over and over, in safe and manageable ways.

A Year of Growth: Highlights and Lessons

In October 2023, I enrolled in the Precision Nutrition Master Health Coach program, a six-month journey that pushed me in ways I hadn’t expected. Every week, we participated in live sessions where we’d break out into small groups and practice coaching skills. Role-playing in front of my peers felt nerve-wracking; my heart would race every time. However, I showed up week after week, knowing that this safe environment was a valuable space to learn and grow. By the end, after an oral exam to demonstrate my coaching skills, I earned my Level 2 master health coach certification and felt renewed confidence in my coaching abilities.

Once the certification was complete, I had to log 50 coaching sessions to qualify for the national board exam. Due to time constraints, I had to ramp up quickly, completing around ten weekly sessions to meet the requirement within five weeks. Initially, I thought connecting with new people in each session would be intimidating because I’d always seen myself as someone who builds deeper connections over time. But again, it was just another story I was telling myself. I surprised myself with how naturally I connected with new clients, realizing that this “introverted” narrative was less true than I’d imagined.

The exam itself was another significant hurdle. I studied intensively for about 12 weeks, joined a study group with other coaches, and took the exam last week. While I’ll find out my results in December, I know I did my best, and I’m proud of the effort I put in to prepare.

The Physical Challenge: Running 5Ks in Texas Heat

The year wasn’t just about mental and professional challenges; there was also a physical one. I ran a 5K every Thursday at 7:30 p.m. this summer in the Texas heat. Week after week, running fast in that heat became both a physical and mental endurance test. Each race was hard, but the consistency helped me build a level of mental strength that I didn’t know I had.

A Year of Growth and Big Plans for 2025

Reflecting on all these experiences, I see how each challenge helped me grow in unexpected ways. This year has been about embracing my potential and letting go of old, limiting beliefs. From pushing through self-doubt to completing new professional milestones, it’s been a transformative journey.

I’m excited about what’s ahead. I’ve got big plans for 2025, and I can’t wait to see how the next chapter unfolds. So, stay tuned and join me in this journey of growth!

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Growth happens when we step outside our comfort zones and do things that challenge and stretch us. By questioning the stories we tell ourselves and taking on “hard but doable” tasks, we open up opportunities for personal and professional growth. It’s not about perfection or instant mastery; it’s about small, consistent steps that build confidence and resilience over time. Remember: you, too, can do hard things. What will you try first?

6-WEEK HOLIDAY CHALLENGE BEGINS NOV 18th

Don't miss out! The 6-Week Holiday Challenge kicks off on November 18th, so this is your last blog post reminder to join before we begin! I'm keeping the cohort small to ensure that each participant receives personalized attention and support. This is not a one-size-fits-all program—it's tailored to help you succeed, no matter where you're starting from. If you’re ready to take control of your health this holiday season and finish the year strong, now’s the time to sign up. Let’s make this season your healthiest yet—reserve your spot today!


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Coach Lea

I am a master health coach, personal trainer, and running coach, dedicated to helping YOU get strong, body and mind!