My Favorite Non-Fiction Book Quotes (Running, Goal Achievement, Mindset)

As part of my New Year's Resolutions (remember those?), I decided to scroll less on my phone at night to relax and read on my Kindle instead. Mentally, it was an easy swap, one black gadget for another. I like to read, and my list of books I wanted to dive into was piling up, so I began reading. I joined Libby to borrow books from the library and have Spotify Premium, where you get a fixed number of audiobook listening hours each month.

It's April first. Do you know how many books I have read so far this year? 24! How many did I read last year? I think five. That was a lot of wasted time on social media, which I replaced with a more productive activity. Yay, me.

To be fair, eight of these were audiobooks (you can send all the angry emails that audiobooks aren't reading to lea@leagendersfitness.com. Just kidding, don't do that). I listen to books when running, walking, or in the sauna. I read the Kindle in the evenings before bed.

When I read, I always highlight ideas that stand out to me, but I rarely go back and look at what I highlighted. I recently discovered that Kindle has kept track of all my highlights in a clippings file. When I read back through my highlights, it reminded me of some quotes I liked from these books, and because I love to blog, I thought it would be fun to share those thoughts and ideas with you!

Here are my favorite quotes from ten non-fiction books for better running, goal achievement, and mindset.

Brain Training For Runners (Fitzgerald, Matt)

“Low motivation for running is often your brain's way of telling your mind that something is wrong—perhaps you are overtrained, or you just need a mental break from formal training.”

"Resistance training improves communication between brain and muscles in ways that enable you to run more efficiently and with less chance of injury."

"Recent science has shown that the brain allows the body to exercise as long and as hard as it "believes" the body can go without harming itself."

"As few as four nights of partial sleep deprivation result in skyrocketing levels of circulating cortisol."

The Art of Impossible (Kotler, Steven)

"Which is why learning to treat fear as a challenge to rise toward rather than a threat to be avoided can make such a profound difference in our lives."

"The goal is to become comfortable with being uncomfortable."

"We don't rise to the level of our expectations; we fall to the level of our training."

Run Elite (Snow, Andrew)

"You cannot consistently perform in a manner which is inconsistent with the way you see yourself."

"Never rely on other people for your positive emotions."

"The only reason you want the time on the clock is because of the way you'll think it will make you feel. The result you want is the feeling, or the emotional state."

Broken Open: Mountains, Demons, Treadmills And a Search for Nirvana (Clark, David)

"It's odd to think that when we let go of the stress of the future, we always seem to perform at a level high enough to make that future amazing. But when we press hard for a specific outcome, we tend to get run over by fate."

"The only way to be strong is to choose to be strong—right now. So I did that. I stopped letting my emotions run me and started directing them."

Bravey (Pappas, Alexi)

"I would later learn that it's actually quite hard to tell yourself to change your feelings...You have to change your actions, then your thoughts and feelings will follow."

"Along the way to being good enough to win at something, you will inevitably lose."

"It isn't helpful to fixate on the end result. The only thing that's in your control is the progress you're making today. You trust that if you keep trying, you will come to the finish line eventually, whatever the finish line looks like for you. The end result will not always be in your hands. What is in your hands is the try."

"Trying your best doesn't mean being the best, it just means trying your best."

"A great coach once told me that when the pain sets in during a workout, it takes less mental energy to push harder than it does to think about slowing down or stopping."

Choosing to Run (Linden, Des)

"Challenge to myself: Will this help me become a champion? Act as if you are the thing you are trying to become."

"You don't get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate."

The Obstacle is The Way (Holiday, Ryan)

"Persist and resist. Persist in your efforts, resist giving into distractions, discouragement, or disorder."

"We don't get to choose what happens to us, but we can always choose how we feel about it. And why on earth would you choose to feel anything but good? We can choose to render a good account of ourselves."

Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life (Tracy, BrIAn)

" If there is no solution, there is no problem."

"Paranoid is someone who believes people are conspiring against him or her. An inverse paranoid, in contrast, is a person who is convinced the world is conspiring to make him or her successful.

"No matter how comfortable you might feel saying it, others don't make you mad. You make you mad. You make you scared, annoyed, or insulted. You and only you create your emotions."

The Greatness Mindset (Howes, Lewis)

"You'll never rise any higher than the way you see yourself."

"Success is in the process, not the outcome. When you don't depend on a specific outcome to define your worth, you are free to become great by failing, learning, and moving forward."

The Untethered Soul (Singer, Michael)

"Just stop. Take a moment to remember that you're spinning on a planet in the middle of empty space. Then remind yourself you're not going to get involved in your own melodrama. In other words, let go of what is going on right then, and remind yourself you don't want to play the mind game."

I thought it was telling that I highlighted a lot about taking control of your thoughts and emotions and focusing on the process rather than the outcomes. Was there anything helpful for you here?

Have you read any of these books? Do you have any book recommendations for me? After all, I have plowed through 24 books so far this year, so I must keep adding to my reading list!

Reading is great (and better than mindlessly scrolling), but the important part is your action based on the new knowledge. What will you do differently now, with this new information?


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Meet Lea: The Lessons That Took Me Ten Years to Learn

I want to tell you about the crazy ride that took me from an insecure chronic dieter to a fitness professional and health coach.

But first, I want to thank you for being here.

My fitness story begins with the first time I gained thirty pounds. 

That’s right. I, too, struggled with my weight and my relationship with health and fitness.

In fact, I’d bet that many speed bumps, barriers, or difficulties you encounter when trying to lose weight or get in shape…I’ve been there.

Overweight? Been there.

Underweight and miserable because of unhealthy exercise habits? Been there.

Hiding from family and friends because “I just don’t want people to see me like this”? Been there.

All-or-nothing mindset? Been there.

Slipping into disordered eating territory? Been there.

It’s crazy because until I approached thirty (I thought I was getting old!), I never had to think about food, let alone “stick to a diet.”

I committed all the usual sins: daily fast food, frequent alcohol, and zero exercise without apparent consequence (ahh, youth). Being in shape (or at least looking it) was easy, or so I thought.

Then, my life changed a bit. I went from working a retail job that kept me on my feet for up to ten hours a day (climbing store ladders in 4-inch heels (again, youth!) to working an office job where I spent nearly the same number of hours sitting on my butt. 

My already non-existent activity level tanked. I thought my metabolism was slowing down because I was getting older (I was young! I was thirty), but the truth is that the inactivity and poor diet finally caught up with me!

Before I knew it, I was thirty pounds (or more; I stopped weighing) overweight and dealing with this new reality. Is this who I am now? My pants didn’t fit. I felt terrible about myself. I avoided friends because I was embarrassed.

I was legitimately insecure and looking for the secret formula to lose weight fast.

So, I did what I thought I should…I started running too much and eating too little.

I am not knocking running. I am a runner. Running was my introduction to the fitness world. I genuinely love to run, the runner's high, the community, the racing, the fun, not to mention the health and mental benefits. But running is not the holy grail for long-term weight loss that the fitness industry would have you believe. I learned this lesson the hardest way possible.

I went extreme, tracking every calorie and counting twelve almonds for a snack while running thirty or forty miles a week.

I would drop weight on the scale and feel like I had accomplished something. Meanwhile, my metabolism, muscle mass, and gut health were tanking.

I lived like that for years, yo-yo-ing more times than I care to recount. Lose the weight. Go off the diet, scale back the running, start drinking, and gain it all back, plus more. Or I’d get sick, injured, or burned out. Over and over and over again. 

It was frustrating. I was confused and embarrassed. And scared this was my new reality.

Then I started strength training, not because I believed it would help me with my weight loss goals, but because I heard it would help me improve my running performance and reduce injuries. (Of course, it didn’t occur to me that injuries were caused by under-fueling and over-exercising.)

The results of strength training were amazing. I was building muscle, getting stronger, and improving my body composition...and my weight was stabilizing. I didn’t gain a pound (or five) every time I had a “cheat meal.” (a term I now despise). I had more flexibility in my diet and felt better than ever—and my running performance did improve. And I’ve kept the weight off for ten years.

I felt like I discovered the secret I had been searching for. 

I wanted to help others get strong, improve their mindset, and change unhealthy relationships with food and exercise. 

I spent the next several years studying, earning endless certifications, to discover one simple fact…

There is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ system, no one secret way to help everyone eat right, get healthy, and stay fit.

Why? Because no two people are the same.

We all respond differently to the food we eat and the training we do, even if we’re doing the same things.

Of course, there are universal truths (resistance training, aiming for minimally processed foods, getting some damn sleep), but we are individuals. We must factor in our lifestyles, what we enjoy, our cultures, our preferences, and our willingness to make changes.

No macro percentage or calorie allotment system will work the same for everyone or guarantee some version of success. You can't use math to solve a people problem.

Once I realized this, everything changed. I got focused on my mindset and what my body was telling me. 

I began to consider how to share my newfound knowledge with others who had been unwitting victims of the diet and fitness industry like I had.

Other people had spent years feeling like failures, blaming themselves for being weak or lacking willpower. I wanted to help all the other chronic dieters suffering from their poor relationship with nutrition and fitness.

I made real changes, not just with my body but with my mind. After going up and down in weight for nearly ten years, I kept it off for ten years. It seemed so simple, but there were lessons I had to learn, lessons I wanted to teach others.

Now, I collaborate with my clients. It's not a dictatorship, with me barking orders and clients obediently following. My clients lead the way because they are the experts in their lives and bodies. Most have been living in their bodies for four decades or more! I don’t claim to have all the answers—How could I when my clients are the experts in their bodies and experiences? We work together, and I help guide and provide education and information as needed to progress.

We figure out what strategies make sense in their lifestyles. A busy wife and mom with a corporate job probably isn’t following a meal plan (as if her kids wouldn’t rebel against chicken and broccoli five nights a week). A student with a big family culture isn't packing Tupperware meals for grandma's dinner nights.  An office worker who hasn't seen the inside of a gym in twenty years isn't doing burpees in a boot camp competition against twenty-year-olds. That kind of advice doesn't make sense, given their lifestyle, experiences, and preferences.

That critical information, lifestyle, experience, and preferences allow us to understand the best training, nutrition, mindset, and lifestyle practices we can employ to maximize results.

My coaching business was designed to achieve one goal…

To help my clients finally look, feel, and perform their best

All while sustaining nutritional and physical health for the rest of their lives! No more up-and-down yo-yo-ing (so they don’t have to make all the mistakes that I did).

And that’s exactly what I do.

So many of us blow through diets and fitness regimens without building confidence in ourselves because what we’re told to do goes completely against who we are as people.

It’s not that you’re not disciplined enough:

It’s that these diets are a one-size-fits-all bucket of lies designed to keep you losing and gaining weight, so you have to keep coming back to them to get your fix!

It’s like an addiction, but you’re convinced you’re doing all the right things.

You’ve been taught:

👎 To constantly count and calculate macros for the rest of your life

👎 That your life has to revolve around your diet

👎 That you can’t go out to eat or enjoy the holidays 

👎 That if you want to lose more fat, then do more cardio, eat less food

👎That high-intensity group exercise or boot camp five days a week is the answer to fat loss

👎That 1500 calories a day is the magic number for weight loss

👎That a lower number on the scale is always a good result

It's no wonder so many of us fail when this is what mainstream fitness is teaching us!

But the good news is that I can teach you what I've learned on my journey.

And it doesn't have to be restrictive—it’s better if it isn’t. Flexibility is what keeps us consistent.

Your nutritional habits should work with your preferences and your life, not despite them.

Self-care is not a fad or something you do until you hit your goal weight… It’s a life-long lifestyle.

Because you’re working with your innate nature, your results are much easier to obtain and sustain.

And the benefits don’t only show up in the mirror …

You’ll also...

👍 Have more energy

👍 Manage stress better

👍 Sleep better

👍 Have more confidence

👍 Age better

👍 Perform better

👍 Progress optimally and maximize your results 

I hope you take inspiration from my personal story. I would never change anything about my fitness and nutrition journey. 

Looking back, I saw that gaining those thirty pounds at thirty years old was the best thing that could have happened to me. Without the catalyst of weight gain, I would have gone on to be skinny and unhealthy for the rest of my life, becoming more frail as I age. Today, at nearly fifty years old, I am in the best shape of my life.

My journey taught me that: 

✔ Strength training is a game changer (especially for women over 30).

Running is fantastic for physical and mental health but not optimal as a long-term fat-loss strategy.

✔ Food quality is just as important as food quantity

✔ Eating enough is just as important as not eating too much

✔  True nutrition is individualized and should fit into each person’s life

✔  Real fitness starts internally, and the external stuff will take care of itself

✔  You can love yourself and still want to improve. You can't shame yourself into healthy behaviors. Mindset is everything. 

If you’re still reading, I want to thank you!

This is a personal story for me to tell, but it’s also a really important one for you to know because it’s also about you.

Enough about me. Tell me about your journey, goals, dreams, and favorite song on your workout playlist (and I’ll tell you mine)!

Are you Interested in working with me to improve your fitness and nutrition? Often, going on a diet or going to the gym isn’t the answer. You may need to close the loop on lifestyle behaviors to maximize your results. I can help you with fitness, nutrition, and lifestyle factors to help you reach your personal goals. If you want support and guidance and to feel like you have someone in your corner, fill out a coaching application, and I'll get in touch. Then, we can chat about whether we would be a good fit. 

Lea


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How To Develop The Skills To Run a Marathon

When you train to run a marathon, it may require the development of new skills. Running is a skill, but are you considering the other skills that may need to be cultivated? I highlighted some important skills needed for marathon training: Time management, moving often, moving well, eating enough nutrients, getting enough sleep, having a growth mindset, and tolerating stress. What can you improve in your lifestyle to elevate your training?